The fear of failure when heading to the unknown can pressure one’s thoughts to the point where you don’t think for yourself anymore but instead you think for the phobia of taking the risk.
It is crazy how we fully depend on what people have to say especially those that don’t really matter.
I remember how this stupid disease started when I was in primary. I would share my chocolate with someone who is not my friend, but just because they appeared cool or rich. That was crazy. But you know!
I still suffer sometimes…who doesnt? But it’s silly..I think the happiest people on earth are those that live about their business without having to strain their neck to see whose watching. That’s how it should go down…
Another thing is comparing yourself to someone else. Personally, I admit, am caught in that trap sometimes and it makes me forget how to think like myself and start thinking like someone else just because I think they are better.
That is a sad reality. We all are capable of being the better version of ourselves but that doesn’t happen by trying to be perfect in the eyes of others. It happens when you write your own story in the chapter of your life, make mistakes, fall in the mud, get beat down and come back stronger to do greater based on the lessons you learned from your tough experience. It doesn’t mean it’s guaranteed we will only mess up if we try. There’s a chance you could win too.
But winning or losing has never mattered…it’s the courage to take the risk and learn from whatever outcome you will get
#this is for me too
#always real people
lornawaweru art 
You’ve said it oh so well #word
Thanks dear..;)
You only discover what you are capable of by experimenting. Making mistakes is part of life. No one will get out of this life without messing in one way or the other. So make a mess!
Thanks for the encouragement 😉