SelfLove

This is you. No one else. Stop shifting your eyes from left to right to see who suits the mirror better. You struggle too much to listen to how you can make other feel comfortable or satisfied. ” it’s a waste of time..sadly, I know you expect a reward for caring and troubling your heart to give others what is within.” But I need you to stop..I need you to reflect from deep within and assess if you have achieved any form of happiness by troubling yourself. If not, you need to stop…please STOP….because you are just digging yourself a grave of sorrow and pain. It doesn’t get better when the inward void gets bigger. It gets worse, more pain, more burning sensations of regret. And no, you don’t develop tough skin, but only deep wounds of pain that build a trap for you that denies you to experience warmth of your environs..so, before its too late… Look at you first
Appreciate you first
Love you first
Before someone else uses your self-love to their advantage…

Child hustler…

hey guyz…something crossed my mind on the up bringing of children. Today, I was sitted in a mat this morning and I observed a child…It looked like she was trying to stand and make way for people to fill the seats so that she wouldnt have to pay busfare….and I was like,”wow in a way ….that child is lucky” She looked like she was maybe in first grade and was taking herself to school… Oh men! in my days it was expecting everyone to do everything for me…”daddy take me to school….mummy pick me up…buy me this…” e.t.c…

Back to the child, I thought she was lucky because, maybe being less privilledged should not be all disadvantaged on one side….I was just thinking if that kid can hustle her way to school at that age, imagine what more room for potential and skill she would have acquired to survive in my life at my age (cant say it out loud…) 

I mean, imagine if such a child is employed at an organization, she might not know this now but probably she will perform even better given certain responsibilities. She will also know how to survive and get through life because she learnt the hardships earlier…

I think this clicks to me that maybe sometimes we as human beings wait for our hardships to be our motivation for doing it big…for achieving big….I dont think it really comes with only the good grades and good behavior but maybe with what life throws at us.. Am not saying we pray for something bad to happen to us so that we know or we are assured our future will be great. It doesnt work like that for everyone, maybe for most of us and thats what was buggling my mind today….

Once you go through a storm in life, it forces you from deep within to take a certain turn in your life …it could be for the better or for worse…but whatever road one takes, it is filled with more determination and motivation than you could ever imagine…. you could reflect, think about it and attest to what am saying…(no lie)

To my concludeshon, i think maybe even as new parents raise their children, they should try not to spoonfeed as much…they might look mean at that time but in the future, their children might appreciate them in bulk.but i dont know its just an opinion that i feel might have some sense…

As for the child, I really wish her a bright future because I feel she’s headed there…..

remember #always real people

 

In my mind…

Hey people, here I am again….today my mind takes me to how my personality changes when around other people… one is expected to act or behave a certain way…e.g you cant say everything thats on your mind…you know., I always had this imagination where there was a power that voiced out all your inner thoughts in public…”oh my your so boring, shut up, its not funny,…why are you forcing me to smile…” e.t.c.e.t.c it would be tragic right? Just imagining a relationship, you are on a date then a powerful voice shouts whats really on your mind….”babe you are boring me with those jokes” or “I love that guy more”…e.t.c

I really thank God there is nothing like that existing on earth… I would have lost a lot…

I think one can tell who one is through their speech and actions… quiet people are harder to read though…the loud ones are easier to analyze…Sometimes observation is my best hobby just seeing how someone is full of potential trying to share what they are all about…the excitement they have with their optimistic view of life…you know maybe this group things for church helps a lot of people…you know, you go there , meet people they smile, laugh and show you how important you really are…

In the real world, no one gives a (hoot) about anyone so maybe its a solace for victims of these cold atmosphere…WHEN ONE FEELS RELEVANT, their optimism storms up the ladder as well and hence they carry out their responsibilities with more motivational push…a meaningful motivational not a monetary one…:)

i think thats it for now my brains a bit lazy today hope it rejuvinates next tyme

#always real people..