Hey guys, its been a while since I wrote something but that has been bit of a struggle for me especialy when trying to find the right motivation, inspiraton or feeling to jot something. Lately Ihave been having thoughts on my healing journey of my human experience. I find myself analyzing the whole bit of how I experience healing as an individual. It could be in form of an epiphany, a unique experience by you or others that makes you change your train of how you think, percieve, or do things. I have started noticing that happen to me in the smallest instances. An example is when am challenging my social nature which is usually introverted so normally it is not easy for me to initiate a conversation or hype up the energy. This is when I would start challenging my usual temperament and ask myself why I dont feel capable of joining the conversation. And I start reassuring myself that there is nothing odd about me that would stop my ability to even ask a question. Sometimes you realize that there is a possibility of holding on to the weaknesses youve had in the past and it feels like they will forever trap your ability to grow in whatever aspect or just life in general. There is also this pressure of taking acton in order to feel like you are making changes in your life. With having different kinds of information on solutions and feeling good because you listened and then wondering if you will apply the same. It can be such a toxic cycle to take on because one feels the dissapointment so heavy before even making an attempt. Here is where I had this light bulb moment when I realized that a major part of healing does not require an immediate fix of the problem. Yes, walking with the problem is where its at. Being fully present in the process, acknowledgement of what is happening and being able to call it for what it is. Most times, I feel like we hide in the shame of being discovered wearing these badges of dissapointment and it feels so painful and uncomfortable to the external world that we cannot bear the impact. On the contrary, sitting in that discomfort is the only way to get to the other side of experiencing freedom. It doesnt have to be anything complicated. It could be as easy as you acknowledging any type of truth you have been struggling to come to terms with even when you are alone. Normally, as humans we like to put our best foot forward and show our best image of who we are and thats ok. However, it is also ok to challenge the norm and face our truths be it negative or positive. Personally, I want to embark on this journey to even allow myself to understand and know who I really am. The more I discover and acknowledge these truths I have been hiding from myself or the world, the more am allowing myself to HEAL.
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